What recharges you at work?

What recharges you at work!

Job is always considered as necessary to earn our bread and butter, a requirement of life, a necessity to run the livelihood, required to prove your existence and different other miscellaneous nature of issues connected with our needs.The more important is that we need to take less stress at workplace. This gives more happiness, improves the relationship in life and you will be able to finish your daily task with more positive points. All of us need to look at life with more positive way. The responsibility given to us is required to be handled more efficiently and we need to maintain the balance between home and office.

After I talk about all these aspects and the main point which drives somebody to work in life, what is it which I am missing here?.

Once we start earning, working somewhere, be it earning $100 or $ 1000 it brings a lot of changes in our life and changes every aspect of our life. Freshers start thinking with a different thought process, some become responsible enough to handle situations and drive their life with lot of care.

But the question remains as it is - what is it we miss when we talk, think about our job or when we are actually in our work place.

I believe every day in my work place should be a day of challenge for me.. Now the question is why? Below I would like to share a small story of a person which would give us an idea why it is necessary for us to take our work with a new face every moment.

I have a common friend. She was very enthusiastic about life and her career. She was full of energy and had an attitude as if would kick all the milestones of life and would write her destiny by her self. She was a person of her own independent thoughts. When in college, we all used to talk about that what is it we would like to do after we are out of the college, we all had some plans but she always said – I wish to be somebody who is always with challenges around. I love cracking my path out of the milestones.

And we all used to make fun of her. As the time passed by – college days became a memory of our past life. But few days back I happened to meet her and what I heard from her drove me to put my thoughts here for my friends on Hubpages.

She narrated her story to me and also how she had to settle herself at the time of difficulties in life. She faced a lot of challenges on her way but it was not what she had ever dreamt of. She told me how much difficulties she faced in her workplace and was totally shattered with no hopes of her future. However, this seems to be a very common story to most of us at work. We all are never satisfied with our jobs and keep on complaining about things which actually play no role in our work life. We indulge in things which were actually not a part of our dream about ourselves.

She after college joined three companies but left all because she wanted to work according to her wish and could not accept the changes in her plan sheet of life. She could not accept the changes in the piece of her dream. She got more indulged in making friends rather than introducing herself to her own work. She wanted more liberty and less work. In short , the thoughts which she carried, the attitude that she had before had gone vanished somewhere. She got more indulged in what others say rather than giving importance to her work.

My dear readers, do you know why all these happened to her because ? –

1) She gave more importance to people around rather than her work.

2) She indulged herself more into daily gossips than understanding how beautiful and interesting her work can be.

3) She had no time and interest for what she was doing. Actually she was only working because it’s a social place. We all need to work, earn money and pull our livelihood. How many of us really think of cracking challenges at work on a particular day?. How many of us really think innovative when we start for our work place from home. How many of us really go to work to learn and with the zeal and enthusiasm.?

We all just go to office/workplace to work because we have no other option to chose. The day we change our attitude, and believe me, we might win the world on that day.

Some useful tips need to be followed for success:

-To take short breaks.

- Always do the important work first.

- Do one thing at a time.

-Say "yes" when you can do and say "no" when you can't do..

-Be around positive people.

-Schedule time for yourself..

-Avoid too much coffee, tea and eat only nutritious food.

-Learn to do the best you can.

-You should be aware of about your strength.

-Feel responsibility and handle it well.

-Always check your posture at workplace.

-Wear comfortable dress/clothes and shoes.

=Use stairs in place of lifts.

And that’s what my friend did. After so much of failure everywhere, and the kind of dissatisfaction she experienced she wanted a change in her life. She suddenly realized what is missing in her that she needs to pull out of herself and then she could change things around .

She looked for herself- the real gem inside and found out what was actually lacking in her.

Her 3^rd company where she was working, every person had a very negative view about her. The management was really cursing the person who chosed her to be a part of their company. Colleagues made fun of her, and people around knew her as a ‘failure’ who could never accomplish a task assigned to her.

But our friend now was a changed lady , she fixed her mind to change the thought process and the way she was looked up by everybody.

The first thing she changed about herself is the way she looked her work. Before she found no charm in the work she was assigned with and used to go to work for the sake of.

But now she started taking her work with a new phase. She started understanding the depth of it and found different innovative ways to improve it. She started taking positive decisions at work and implementing things for the betterment of her company. She stopped indulging in gossips and brought out a very professional way of dealing with people around. Slowly and gradually things changed at her work place and now she is one of the best performers and is a matter of encouragement for the colleagues and also the new comers.

So what is it necessary at our work place is how well we judge our work, how well we enjoy it. If we take our work as a challenge , as a learning everyday then we would start loving it and giving our best. However, if we just work for the sake of then things will never change and my friend’s story can be story of everyone of us.

We should not think that “ how much” work we are assigned with but should think how well we can mould the day of trust put on us and create a status of success at work.

Everyday I go to work, I take up a new challenge. I do every work thinking the positive aspect of the same. I do not think how much work I have been given but everyday I try to win from me. I challenge myself everyday and try something new with more enthusiasm every moment.

According to me reading books on successful stories, tips of success might just encourage you to think about something innovative for you. However at the end, the ball is only in your court, there might be different situations and conditions, so what you need to really implement is not what others tell you but what you think is correct for you. Because our brains might be wrong at times but our conscious, our heart can never be wrong. It would always show us the right way if looked up with good faith and truthfulness.

This is what recharges me at work – What about you ! !

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Generally emoticons and abbreviations should be avoided in formations, as it is normally used between friends. Friends use Emotions in internal e-mail to set up meetings within their circle of colleagues. Besides some of the Company heads also use emoticons in e-mail on areas of improvement. It adds an extra bit of cordiality in their conversation because they feel to be more friendlier and expect response to their e-mails in a very positive way. They do not feel that they are being looked down upon.

How to make the most of workplace friendships

*Focus on helping each other, not on dissecting office personalities or lamenting the decisions. You can't change those things but you do have the power to brighten up your corner of the workplace.

*Make time to nurture outside friendships. You may enjoy hanging out with colleagues after hours, but you still need to have a personal life that is untouched by workplace concerns.

*Don't take it personally when former colleagues show no interest in getting together.