Why my mom is unique?

MY MOTHER – THE UNIQUE RELATION ‘I' TREASURE’

As everybody knows that a mother is true essence of life who opens up a world of joy to her child .She brings sunshine in life, supports her child forever as her heart is a mirror of love. Her unconditional love is known to all of us but what happens when she is not there ? We lose happiness, essence of life, positive aspects of life, miss life's love able experience and many other wonderful parts of life.

My mother – It might be a very common and day to day word for my readers. However, for me it is never common and a thing which can be just passed or ignored by. My mother a special character of my life for whom actually today I exist was an angel with full of only love who was more missed by God as He was jealous of me. That is why, He took her away from me when I was just 12 years old and nothing could ever have prepared for how much I was going to miss her. She left me alone only with her memories to treasure with. After her death I promised to myself to go on living life to my best because I know that's what my mom would want.

The death of a mother is the hardest for a son aged 12 years or so to bear as she is the one who was there for me the most. The loving memories of my childhood which I passed with my mother is in fact the unforgettable wealth I treasure.

Mother is such a word which we learn even before we learn to open the eyes, to breathe, to move. She is the one who takes all the pain of her life just to give us the opportunity to open our eyes in this beautiful world of God. That we all know, and might think that what is so special about it ? This is something known to all …… But if we pause our lives for a while and give our emotions to flow in its own pace then we know how worthy, how valuable, how precious she is for us.

Today with all emotions and forgetting my position in this world in all relations and the society and just becoming a single child, I would like to explain about my Mom to my readers. My Mom– a very simple and sweet lady for whom I was everything. There was nothing special in her apart from the other mothers of the world. But she is the most special for me whom I still search in all the paths I cross, in all the dreams I see. In the warmth of relations arms, at the time I never knew what to do, at the time when I wanted others to understand before I speak, at the time when I was wrong and wanted to be appreciated just for a smile, at the time when I was correct and no one was there to encourage, at the time when small happiness wanted to be shared but the worthiness of it is not equalized by other relations, and also when I was in a problem and did not know what was right and what was wrong. Sometimes dropping of tears in my eyes is not interrupted and I feel isolated from rest of the world but her love again strengthens me to be brave enough to face the sorrows of life.

My ”Mom" is missed every movement of my life, every breathe I take and I would never recollect that warmth in any other relations. We all know that “Mom” is a person who is never selfish with her kids, she will remain hungry to make you eat. She will not sleep so that we do not miss a snap. She will not feel tired so that we get comfort. All those qualities which are unique in its own manner was an inbuilt character of my “ Mother”. God has gifted her an unlimited power of affection and untiring energy to watch you grow. In my view, the real meaning of each of its alphabet should be the actual profile of a' mother ' as under:

'M' for showing most beautiful way of motherhood,

'O' for her outstanding character as a mother,

'T ' for her exemplary way of teaching,

'H' for heavenly feeling on her laps,

'E' for giving ethical standard for clearing every examination of life,

'R' for round the clock care for her child.

I remember of my childhood days, whenever I use to commit any mistake, she used to scold and punish me. She used to pretend to be strict enough but she would cry after she punished me . Mother is such a sweet character created by God in the stage of love. It is well said God created “ Mother “ because he is not always able to reach all his beloved. My mother was my best friend. I used to share all my problems, sorrows, guilt and confession, my anger and annoyance. The care and love, the affection I saw in her eyes had lost when she closed her eyes forever.

No doubt, we have lot of relations around us except a ‘Mother’ but the selfless love, the care, the warmth of love which a mother has , will never or can never be received from anybody else. In this world , we all expect something or the other from each other, but a mother expects nothing and knows only “ To give”. She will not forget you even if you do not love her. She will not curse you even if you hate her, she will not wish you sorrows even if you kill her, and that is what Mom is. Whatever we do we love her, hate her or do not bother for her, she would always pray for our good, she will pray for our happiness and peaceful life.. Till now, whenever I am very happy or in a problem I look every where and my heart searches for my Mom. I miss her a lot and the warmth of her laps, the care of her hands and the words of her love, that love which is more precious than the wealth of the entire world. We can buy everything in the world but not the 'love'56 and blessings of a mother. We can again get a chance to make all relations but mother cannot be attached or replaced by a new one.

Though I lost my mother 29 years before, yet she is always seen in front of my eyes. My one eye sees her picture, while the other eye looks on to the world to which she brought me in. I don't know how the God looks like, but I am sure He can't be beautiful and loving than my mom. In fact all the mothers in the universe are wonderful for their kids.

This piece of article is just a small note in honor of my beautiful mother whom I would like to convey this message that how much do I love her and miss her presence in my life. When I had nothing in my life. I didn’t know how to walk and how to pronounce a word clearly . I had she with me in every step I took holding her finger. And now when I have all the luxuries of the world, I have everything that can give happiness and comfort but all these cannot equalize or compare the love of her arms, the comfort of her laps, the sweetness of her lu-la-bi songs.

Just a thought that if I can reverse the time I would love to be with her “Maa” and nothing else is a demand , a wish of my heart.

I know if she is there than nothing can go wrong in my life. But I know this is not possible but wherever her soul is , I know she can hear me. I can feel her presence in my life. God may rest her soul in peace and if He asks me what I want in my life I would like to be again her son in my next life. I would like to spend my whole life in her presence, under the shadow of her love from the heat of difficulties and rudeness of life. I know I am deprived of her love today by the almighty GOD and my life is lack of ‘ L’ – love and the fact is that all these damage can not be reversed, but still I myself feel lucky and thank ‘Him’ who has given me unique love of my mother. Every day passes but none of it is left remembering her. It is very painful when you know that after your mother no one will listen to your problem or support at the time when you are going through a critical phase of life and at that moment you are forced to drop tears of your helplessness. There was also a time when I was undergoing basic training of my career job, my colleagues and batch mates after coming back from their home chatting the memory of days spent with their mothers while on short leave and also sharing the sweet dishes cooked by their mothers with them including me, the pain of her non-existence has always reminded me of more disappointment with the life.. In my eyes all those who were very lucky to have their mother alive except myself. There may be many more who have lost their mothers but the isolated and charmless life I was leading perhaps are few one in this world. Even today when I am crossing my youth, I feel more in- secured without her..

script type="text/javascript"> As already said, it was the hardest and most devastating thing for me when I lost her as a child and no one was there to give me the same kind of love and touch. She was like a roof above me who always pampered me when I got angry over a small issue. Not only this , the mother itself carries a lot of sacrifice for her child which is the real truth and creation by almighty GOD that she dies when you cry, cares for you in your loneliness and loves you every time you need, and she is none other than your loving and beautiful mom. I just wanted to say that if tears could build a stairway and memory a lane, I would have walked to heaven to bring you home again. I love my mother more than anything, but it is a truth that all moms love their kids.

“Miss you Mom”

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2. Husband and wife should lead a proper life and eat good food before conception of a child., and conceive the child with a good frame of mind and feeling.

3. Whether it is a boy or a girl, is not so important. The only thing is to have a healthy and talented child.

4. Remain free from worries, tension and be happy during the period of pregnancy.

5.Give up all kinds of addiction.

6 For a pregnant woman, fear is extremely harmful.

7.Do not suppress natural calls (stool, urine, hunger, thirst and sleep)

8 Adopt a positive outlook.

9 High heeled sandals or sleepers need not to be worn.

10.Practice self control during pregnancy.