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A STRONG DESTROYER

The word ‘Doubt’ carries a tool which is a strong destroyer that can put an end to your relationship. There may be many more other tools that can kill your relationship but ‘doubt’ on your spouse, family, closed ones and friends can not be solved easily. It , therefore, becomes imperative to know the cause of ‘doubt’ and find out the ways to get the solution.

The value of trust in a relationship can not be measured but the cost is known when we lose it. It is created and destroyed by our own action, ability and capability to maintain and fulfill it. We all know trust is a base of any relationship like marriage, family life or friendship and without it no relation can be successful and survive. It is established by ‘Love’ which is a key factor of growth of any relationship. If you have no faith on your spouse, friends or any other closed ones, the relationship can not be built a true reason for a successful relationship.

The foundation and start of a genuine relationship is a combination of true love and trust which make them feel very safe in each other’s company. Also when your closed ones do not respond with a feeling of love, it becomes difficult to trust him If one of the spouse claims that he or she is truly in love , it can not be construed unless it is because of a real trust felt by them . When there is lack of trust between two people, it gives doubt and raises uncertainty about sincerity and faith of a person towards the relationship. Real trust is not very easy to get as it requires to devote maximum of your time, efforts and even money to build it. In fact trust is a thing which is earned after putting yourself to various tests and it can not be given straightaway to anyone.

One should keep on trying to get the trust from small matters to important matters as making a relationship healthy needs sufficient amount of interest in communicating day to day talk of common interest. When couples are able to spare time to talk to each other, start listening carefully and sharing their thoughts and exchanging views , it gives a feeling that both of them are important for them . When they are in a healthy relationship, they would never lie and this will bring a feeling of comfort in both the partners.

.We have observed that most of the marriages have ended up in a divorce due to distrust or either of them can’t get along. We do not know whether it is due to the reason that spouses are having affair outside their marriage which is leading them towards destruction or the young generation cannot sustain the responsibility of marriage. Whatever may be the reasons, but it is certain that when there is a lack of trust between the spouses , it is most likely that their marriage will not survive. In a strong relationship, you need to see that the body language is matching with the words you are saying. Belief is another important issue for building trust and one should never hide the secrets he has besides looking at needs of your partner and supporting at the time of need will also help in building a strong relationship.

Similarly, we need to keep trust in our relationship and never allow even a small amount of distrust on any of them. Another important thing in a relationship is a commitment. We have sometime experienced doubt in our life, against our beloved without thinking about its reality. We have also witnessed many healthy relationship breaking up just due to baseless doubt which a person realizes later and by the time it is too late. As a whole, trust is the only key which prohibits breaking the beautiful feeling of love in any relationship. No one has ever been benefitted out of 'doubt' on their partners as it can never gain wisdom if it doesn’t relate to you. It is well said that suspicion or doubt not only lead to animosity and hatred but also destroy the healthy relationship of a human being.

(Images of couples displayed on this hub are those most popular and lovely couples who are leading their married life with great amount of trust on each other)


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MENOPAUSE

Most of the women do not know the reason of stopping menstrual bleeding in them when they are around the age of 40 to 50 years. As a result, some of the women suspect that menopause means beginning of old age and end of their beauty and sexual life getting upset which are wrong.. Due to changes in their body at this stage, the women start behaving in irritating way and some time their married life is adversely effected.

Menopause happens in the three following ways:-

1. If the body of woman is healthy, then without any trouble the menstrual bleeding comes to an end and the woman even does not feel it.

2. The menstrual bleeding reduces gradually before a final close.

3. The menstrual cycle becomes irregular and the difference between two cycle goes on increasing.

If menstrual bleeding does not occur for six months then it may be deemed that menopause has taken place. In case after six months once again menstrual bleeding takes place then it is post menopausal bleeding and in this condition a lady doctor needs to be consulted for proper treatment and diagnosis.

During menopause the body experiences some changes which frighten and upset women. They are all natural symptoms of menopause..and therefore they all need to remain as good as they were before.


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ubanichijioke Level 7 Commenter 10 months ago

Thanks so much for bringing the essence of trust in a relationship. Yes, trust is one of the most relevant and important ingredient that sustains a successful marriage. couple must entrench this belief in their marriage and ensure that they do not toil with this part and parcel that nourishes a successful marriage. Thumbs up. Voted for you

nut 4 weeks ago

it is so lovely.I hope they will be the best and the only lovers

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